Never tell children their behavior is bad.

I have heard people say that it’s not okay to tell children they are bad, but that it is okay to tell them that their behaviors are bad. I totally disagree with using the word “bad.” When children are told their behaviors are bad, they start to feel that they are bad. When children think they are bad, they will act the part.

Instead of telling children their behaviors are bad, tell them what you want. “Jordan, I need you to pick up the papers on the floor. Thank you.”

Have a great day. You are a difference maker.

Maryln