There are some children who need “a tree in their lives.” They need the strength of those branches and deep roots of faith. When my daughter died, I was depressed. I had to get through my grief and sadness. Talking about it to friends and family who were “trees” in my life helped. Doing something in honor of her memory helped me. Spending time with her children helped. At times I needed to cry. There were times I needed to pray. There were other times I went to a quiet place where no one could hear me, and I just screamed out my frustration. But the gift that helped me the most was having loving people around me (trees). These were people who gave me big hugs, and people who gave me hope and encouragement for my own life.
You can do this for others, be the support system that children need. Holiday time is often a time of lots of sad feelings, wishing for things that cannot happen. Help children to feel secure. Be that “tree,” that warm shoulder for them to lean on.
Have a great day. You are a difference maker.
Maryln
Tuesday, December 8, 2009
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1 comments:
I have been wanting to respond to several of your daily writings. I lost my son to suicide in October. This has been the most trying, hurtful time in my life. My husband and I know that our lives have been changed forever. We are faithful christians and we do have our church family for support. You are so right about friends and family being like trees. I love this analogy. Thanks for sharing your experiences because they do help others who have experienced life changes.
Sincerely, Cindy Oldaker
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