The OOOPS Strategy

When children are defiant, or talk back, refuse to listen until they speak respectfully. Instead just calmly say, “Ooops.” This is a reminder for children to in turn say, “Ooops,” and make their request in a politer voice.

Explain this ahead so that children know what you will be doing and rehearse polite ways of asking for things.

EXAMPLE:
Child: “I hate you. You are mean.”

Teacher: “Ooops.”

Child: (Pauses) “Ooops, I was mad. I really would like to…”

Have a great day. You are a difference maker.

Maryln